The concept of love and relationships today is quite misinterpreted. Today we relate them to different words like understanding, loyalty, trust, space, cuddles, attention, sympathy, despair and what not. We are so involved with all these words and feelings that we actually fail to understand the meaning of love. Truth being, that it is rightly said, “Love has no meaning”. It’s a feeling like any other feeling in the world. It gives you strength, hope, power, courage, will, determination and what not to drive you forward.
The meaning of this word lies in your partner. Love is an exchange of energy. When we say ‘I love you’ we take strengths of two people and combine them to form a single power. A single bond which can overcome any difficulty that comes in the way. It’s a connection of one heart to the other, where you develop a new sense for just that special person. This sense helps you feel them. Even when they are silent, you can understand what they want to convey. You can actually feel your heart crushing into peices when you see them cry or when you fight with them.
It’s believed today that there is a crush, an ex, maybe multiple exes, first love, a second and so on… But I believe that there is just one true love of your life. Single person who tops your list everytime. You feel a void when you both are apart. But when together you feel strong. You can sense that connection, a connection that just keeps on getting stronger and stronger. No matter how often you both fight, in the end you realise that that person means the world to you. You could cross the world, traverse the universe and still make it to them just to say those three words, I love you.
When you love someone, you don’t care about any other person. It’s just you and your partner that matters to you. Love is what that makes you stay after every fight. Love is what gives you hope, that tomorrow will be a good day. Just you and I kind of day. We say “till death do us apart” but we don’t understand the essence of it. We don’t realise the value of people around us, especially the ones who matter to us. Once they are gone or they are dead, then we mourn and cry for their presence. Love is the foundation of every relationship. How big the hurdle is, if you love that someone with all your heart, you’ll keep your attitude, ego, anger, work and everything else aside and do anything to be with them. If you can’t do all that, then my friend you need to love harder and realise this sooner.